Be happy like your animals

1487391948493Pets are our family. They are always happy to see us and never fail in giving us all of their love. It’s a challenge to try to stay as positive and happy as them, but it’s good to try!

Screwed Over in The Buisines World

So I just found out that a guy who was suppose don’t to do an installation for us ran out of town. He had to order things and have them shipped, so he’s already been payed. I’m the one who recommended him to my father… I feel terrible. I’m at a loss at what to do. This is my fault and I feel like I should take the responsibility to fix it… but I don’t know how.

People can be so selfish. I don’t understand the human race at all. Guilt and frustration and warring in my heart. The world is not fair, and unfortunately things happen all the time to remind us of that fact.

Awkward Or Embarrassing Moments in Public 🌪☄️🌎💥

Have you ever done anything embarrassing in public? Yes, most people have whether they’re willing to admit it or not.

It can be something small like accidentally mixing up words. One time I accidentally texted the word sex instead of sec to my dad… I was about 16 at the time, talk about awkward! Also, one time when I was about 12 I accidentally kissed my dad on the lips instead of the cheek when I was saying goodnight… I just walked away shocked, not knowing what to say. It wasn’t my fault that he moved at the last minute! Neither one of us said anything. Awkward memories will haunt you forever… 👀 -Just like these eyes.

After a scary movie (I’m a complete wuss, it’s pathetic) I always feel like someone is watching me. Even in the daytime… At night it’s worse. Every time I think about creepy things (every thirty seconds) I’m over there switching the lamp on and off to make sure Annabelle isn’t in the corner ready to kill me. Freaky doll. Actually based on a real doll too. Look it up on google Annabelle was real. She didn’t kill anyone as far as I know, but she attempted to. To this day the real Annabelle is locked up in a box in a museum.

Back to the topic at hand. Maybe you’ve at some point in time let out some form of natural gas from your body. Heads up, if you’re swimming in water in a pool, at the lake, or taking a bath with the spouse, there is no hiding a fart under water. (Unless you’re on the opposite side of the boat as everyone else, then you can hide it) If someone swims around right after you let one rip though, you’re screwed if you recently had beans. Farts seem to like to linger on the surface of water like they don’t want to leave you. But there’s usually no hiding it. Bubbles will rise. Then the undeniable smell comes after like a fog of death moving slowly, but once it hits you, you want a gas mask. Way to ruin a romantic moment while taking a bath with the hubby, am I right?

Next, farts under the covers. This can be for anyone. Husband and wife or just having a sleepover with the friends. People of all ages, even kids. Although they tend to just laugh at their embarrassing moments, especially little boys. Heck teenage boys are the exact same now that I think about it. When guys get together no mater what age… embarrassing stuff is usually seen as funny. Either way, you just have to squeeze those cheeks and hope you can hold it in. If you can’t, just pretend you’re asleep and pray the other person is too so they don’t smell it. There’s really nothing you can do at that point. If they find you out, let the cover fanning and exclaims of disgust begin.

My boyfriend was tickling me one time and I could feel a fart on the verge of coming out so I sank down on the floor and sat down hoping he would give up tickling me… He didn’t. I farted. My boyfriend then ran away from me through the house yelling that I farted. Drama queen… Needless to say I was as red as a tomatoe and I hid from him for a good ten minutes after that. That wasn’t the first time it happened, either. The first time I ever farted around my boyfriend, I farted on him. This time too it was his fault. He was tickling me. We were originally messing around on the ground wrestling, Although I don’t think it can be called wrestling when he was clearly winning and not putting forth any effort whatsoever. He grabbed me and pulled me on top of him, my back was on his chest, and he proceeded to tickle me. I didn’t feel it coming this time, unlike the other time, and I ended up laughing so hard that I farted on my boyfriend. Good times… (not?) I cried I laughed so hard. I was hysterical as well as embarrassed, but there was no denying that I had just farted on my boyfriend. Him running around yelling crazy things didn’t help, I just couldn’t stop laughing. To this day he teases me about farting on him. We both are able to have a good laugh about my embarrassment. Him a little more than me, I think.

Once, when I was twelve I belched so loud in a quiet Swiss restaurant. That was the first time I had ever burped out loud outside of my home. At home I was proud of my loud burps, since I looked up to my older brother who’s hobby was burping. My brothers didn’t help raise a lady, let’s just say that… Anyway, everyone in the entire restaurant (including my family) looked straight at the shocked little 12 year old me who was probably still 70 pounds, like they were wondering, “How did that come out of that tiny girl?!” I didn’t mean to burp, it just slipped out. I tried to hide under the table.

Has anyone ever lost a swimsuit top (girls) or swimsuit bottoms (girls or guys)?  I have. I’m into water sports for fun. Fun as in I don’t compete or anything, I just like to get out there and have a blast even when I crash and make a fool out of myself every time. Thankfully though, every time I lost a piece of swimsuit (yes it has happened multiple times) I was able to save myself from being seen, for the most part I think. I really don’t know to be honest. Someone on another boat could’ve seen my bare butt and I would never know. Food for thought.

Everyone has had embarrassing moments at one point or other. Some people (me) have them continuously in a never ended cycle of awkward or embarrassing times. But hey, if it makes other people laugh, I guess it’s not the end of the world for me. 😜

Feel free to comment your own embarrassing moments! It would make me feel better. 😂

Change may be hard, but it’s possible

Have you ever wanted to change? Better yourself in any way? Most people would say yes to that question. Even if we are content with how things are, and who we are, there is always room for improvement. Even if it’s only in the little things.

It’s easy to think of all the things we want to change. It’s hard to actually start changing. It’s easy to say, I’ll do that tomorrow, but then tomorrow may never come. It’s easy to get busy in life and put off what you really want. The best way to get where you want to be is to jump right in. Don’t wait until tomorrow.

Everyone struggles with these things. No one is alone in that. Change is hard. But change is possible.

That’s something I myself am trying to do right now. It’s not easy, and I’ve been discouraged for a long time, but it’s time to take a leap and stop putting it all off on tomorrow.

It may seem impossible. You may think, well I’m too set in my ways now, it’s too late to change. Don’t ever forget this: It’s never too late to change. If you’re wishing your life were different or better, do everything in your power to make that happen. Don’t let yourself be discouraged.

It’s nice when you have loved ones to support you, that always helps. It can also be a crutch, if you lean on them too much. No matter if you’re surrounded by loved ones, or by yourself, all you need to change is you. You are your own power to change.

In my case, I have my family, myself, and most importantly of all, God. Even if you think you’re alone, you are never truly alone. I believe that God watches over all of us, and if you let him, he can be your support and power. Change is possible. Whether you choose to let other people or God help you, always believe in yourself.

The time to change is not tomorrow, it’s now.

New Beginning – The start of my newest story! Please read!💖

I just started my third book. I’m very scatterbrained when I write, so I go back and forth between stories. I also usually start out with a beginning, only an idea to the start with, and go from there. I never plan it out well unfortunately, so it can be a mess sometimes.

In this new story, the main character is attacked in an alley after she witnesses something terrible. She almost dies, but is saved at the last minute. Then she is suddenly drawn into a world that she didn’t know existed, one where certain things that shouldn’t be possible. She wants to go back to normal, but can’t. She is now being targeted. Her life will change forever, all because she was in the wrong place at the wrong time. Thankfully someone was in the right place at the right time, and that’s why she’s alive. How will she survive in this new world?

Yes, obviously, I like to write fantasy stories. 😊 With supernatural creatures, romance, suspense, and fight scenes. That’s my style. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’m not really sure where this story is going to go yet, but I can’t wait to find out! I’m trying to keep it vague so no one can steal it… Highly unlikely (especially since I have 0 followers so far) but better safe than sorry, right? It’s a process thinking it all out, and sometimes as I write I even surprise myself. Words just pour out of my fingers before I even know what I’m wanting to say. Twists and turns happen before I even realize it as I type. 🙊🙈 That’s the way I write and I have fun doing it.

To anyone that decides to follow me, your thoughts are welcome! 😅 I want to hear what other people think of the crazy stories that pop into my head. I’m very self conscious about my writing and I don’t have any confidence yet. That’s where this blog comes in. Hopefully I can eventually get some feedback, if I ever get any followers. Fingers crossed!

1470184715777Something I like to do as a hobby, photography. (My dog, Bronx👆🏻) I’ll probably post some of my pictures every now and then. It’s usually animals or nature. All taken with my iPhone so far.

So… this is mt first post. Hello world. 👋🏻 I won’t say my name on here (too personal) but I’ll go by the name Hostess. I decided to start a blog to share/get ideas and advice, talk about life, and talk about the books I’m currently writing. I have 4 different stories stuck in my head at the moment. I’m also trying to make my life better, in many different aspects. New journey here I come! Anyone who decides to keep up with it, I’m very honored to have you read my posts, in advance. 🙂💖

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